Some things happen in your life which make you wonder, is all your anger and bitterness you feel is worth the energy and time? All of a sudden, you realize that the reason you were feeling angry was not actually a reason. That is the discovery you are looking for in your life.
Life doesn't give you many reasons to be happy for, but when it does, our job is to prolong that moment of happiness. Pessimists cannot survive here because they are never happy. We need to realize that happiness is always around the corner but to travel down that road, you have to positive and accepting. Nobody will wait for you to come out of your cocoon. People will continue living the way they do. Nobody really cares about you if all you do in groan and cry.
There are two centers of control in our life. The first one includes the things which are under our control while the second one includes the things which are not in our control. If we focus all our energies in running after things that are not in our control, we will stop relishing the things which are in our control. Consequently, it gives rise to anger and hurt, and the pessimistic approach which will never let us be happy.
We cannot wait for happiness to find us. In order to be happy, we need to seek it ourselves. But the sad reality of life is that, in realizing this truth, we spend most of our lives and at the end, when we are about to die, we stumble upon it and lament ourselves on our stupidity and ignorance.
But, you know what the worst part is? Knowing about it but not having enough control over you to change yourselves. That is not even sad, it's a TRAGEDY. Its something which we need to counter. Get help from a shrink if that helps you in outgrowing this habit, talk to your mom and dad if that helps, confide in someone or it will be too late to change yourselves.
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